Typically, your senses limit you to the ego’s illusory reality, which wants to control your life. However, if you shift your CONSCIOUSNESS to the level of Source Energy understanding, all your desires will manifest into actual reality. Yes, this can be unclear for anyone who does not yet understand the fundamental principles embodied through conscious clarity of spiritual action.
The Family Relationship category of Life Plan Balance has three sections: Birth, Extended and Intimate Families, which relate to infancy, adolescence, and adulthood. Each of these sections plays a significant role in your overall perceived happiness. When you learn to love unconditionally, you will understand the true purpose of inviting each family member into your life situation.
The Original Source Agreement (see Illustration – A) you made with Source Energy (God) or whatever other name you choose to give the higher power before being born into human form included an agreement with every person who enters your life. This agreement is evident for some of you; it is entirely meaningless for others. It doesn’t matter at this point whether you believe it or not. However, for future discussions, let us assume this is true. Once you understand that you are the sole creator of every aspect of your life situation, you may have a different outlook (increased gratitude) about how your life evolves daily, especially in relationships.
People you meet along your life path enter your awareness for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you fully integrate your life situations with your Higher Self, you will realize no coincidences exist. Your purpose for bringing each person into your life has a meaningful correlation with your ultimate goal of being here; however, you may not be CONSCIOUSLY aware of it at the time.
Summary of Family Relationship Sections:
- Birth family – You choose your family before birth based on specific attributes necessary to fulfill your life plan. Your Birth family provided the essential DNA structure to complement that life plan purpose. Most people live with their original family during infancy and adolescence, and then leave to branch out independently when they reach adulthood. Others are adopted and live with different family members. Living in a separate household from your original family was intended to introduce an alternative influence on your life situation. This influence does not alter the initial genetic structure you deemed necessary to achieve your ultimate life purpose – that genetic structure will always be with you as the root. Offer each family member unconditional love, as each has a unique purpose in your life.
- Extended family – In adolescence, you develop many extended family relationships; some fulfill a specific purpose and then are gone, and some will stay with you into adulthood. It doesn’t matter what the ultimate objective is for them coming into your life during adolescence; they will either continue to be there or not, based on your free will to choose how they fit into your life’s purpose. Some extended family relationships develop and then fade, only to reemerge later in life. How they fit in is based upon how they interface on the Train of Life™ (see Illustration – B) and whether or not they play a significant role in your Original Source Agreement. You may carry them with you or not, depending on the level of energy development in harmony with yours. It’s all perfect without judgment. The main point is to CONSCIOUSLY participate with each person at the highest level of awareness possible. Offer them unconditional love and let the relationship evolve at its own energy level.
- Intimate family – Intimate family relationships are paramount for adults to fulfill their ultimate destiny. Some people have only one close family relationship or romantic partner, while others may have multiple partners throughout their lifetime. Whether you are with the same mate throughout your lifetime is of little consequence to the Universe. The main goal is to live a happy life, offer unconditional love, and fulfill your ultimate destiny.
Unconditional love has no boundaries! However, if one person in the intimate relationship grows in energy vibration and the other does not, the relationship will almost certainly fall out of balance. The imbalance in energy is why it is imperative to choose a mate based on spiritual harmony rather than the typical form-based reasons of most marriages, which eventually end in divorce and dysfunctional emotions.
In a Spiritual, intimate family relationship (living through awareness and unconditional love), they know they are responsible for devotion to the relationship. However, they also know it should never be at the cost of their own personal Highest Self happiness. We should always strive to find a partner in harmony with our Highest Self and offer unconditional love to the relationship. When an intimate relationship is grounded in spiritual unity, it flows through life because both people are balanced and look out for the greater good without sacrificing their individual truths. Living in oneness, but not at the cost of the other’s expansion, is the key to fulfilling mutual happiness.
Let’s examine the Train of Life™ analogy (see Illustration – B). If two engines power the life plans, they become more powerful, and momentum increases. However, if only one is powering both trains (for an extended period), the overall energy level decreases. Therefore, if one person needs to leave the relationship due to stagnation, the other understands and is grateful for the time spent together. The stagnation does not diminish their unconditional love for one another. It means the relationship is no longer growing, and mutual benefit is lost; release is agreed upon, and unconditional love remains intact. Then, each person moves on to fulfill their destiny.
We all have unique interests based on the gifts we were given before birth. Our responsibility is to do our best to fulfill the Original Source Agreement by sharing those gifts to benefit humanity. Our agreement includes sharing with all the family relationships we continue building throughout our lives. People living a life based strictly on “what’s in it for me” will view their gifts with arrogance and self-centeredness. This superiority is the ego or mind-based Lower Self, which ignores the true intention of Life Plan Balance and unconditional love. However, when the Higher Self powers the Train of Life™ analogy, a different outcome is achieved, and all relationships receive a beneficial embrace. The result is happiness for all, in Oneness.
Author: Terry Swejkoski